“It’s Not About God’s Wonderful Plan For Your Life”

The images used in this graphic page contrast two different worlds, yet whatever the Gospel is, it must have a message for both worlds.
Whatever the Gospel is…it just can’t tell a hurting child, “God has a wonderful plan for your life.” I know that for some people that will sound like blasphemy, like I’m denying a Biblical fact. But I’m not. (At least, I’m not trying to do so. I just want to clarify.)

If you are familiar with “The Four Spiritual Laws,” you will know that this is the First Spiritual Law. (Who doesn’t like laws? And especially laws that say you can have a wonderful life?) And honestly, I’ve used “The Four Spiritual Laws” to share the Gospel. But the more I see of life, the less I’m inclined to want to use the words “a wonderful plan.” I want better words that tell me what God wants, not what my imagination wants.

In some respects, “God has a wonderful plan for your life” sounds like a “sales pitch,” and I don’t think that would have worked very well in the early church when being a follower of Christ meant possible imprisonment, torture, and a horrible painful death. There are still places in the world where it can mean these same things. Let’s be honest. None of those gruesome things “sell.” It almost gives me the impression of being “false advertising.” This is particularly true when you look at the perfect “truth in advertising” Jesus provided.

People are probably going to “revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account.” Matthew 5:11 (NRSV)

And that’s just to start. Think about it. You have to tell yourself “No” and give up everything that’s all about you.

Then Jesus told his disciples, “If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it.” Matthew 16:24-25 (NRSV)

Whatever the Gospel is…it just can’t tell a hurting child, “Yes, your Mommy is an addict who would do anything for drugs and your Daddy cooks meth in the garage, but God has a wonderful plan for your life.” Isn’t that a lot like saying, “Your parents are failures. They totally missed God’s wonderful plan for their lives.” It’s that a lot like separating a child from their only source of survival and hope for tomorrow? That’s scary.

Eventually the hurt child may even create an idea of “a wonderful plan for your life” far from the reality they experience growing up, a reality that only happens in “happily ever after.” That’s scary too, but for a different reason.

Maybe that’s why evangelism often fails with children who have grown up. (I say “children who have grown up” here because even as adults we still carry our childhood self with us.) We know that reality seldom matches what we imagined. Sometimes we do the same things our parents did, and hate ourselves and our lives all the more for it. Sometimes we experience things that feel far from being part of “a wonderful plan,” so we blame ourselves, feeling like somehow we’ve missed something.
Maybe we need to ditch our own made up imaginary “happily ever after wonderful plan for your life” ideas and see what God really offers.

In the end, I think the only guarantee we have is this.

“…And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” Matthew 28:20 (NRSV)

Jesus Himself. He alone is a wonderful plan for your life. Sadly, we may only discover this when all of our imaginary “happily ever after wonderful plan for my life” ideas have failed us.

So maybe the message should be “God has a wonderful plan for your life and it’s all about knowing Jesus”?

11 thoughts on ““It’s Not About God’s Wonderful Plan For Your Life”

      1. I hope you don’t receive any, but rather that others receive what you are trying to say. I had that ‘hurting child’ childhood, so much of what Christians said didn’t add up to me, it is only by the grace of God that I finally came to salvation. It’s a hard message though, you did a great job as always friend!

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  1. I agree with you, a wonderful earthly life is not in the cards. Children won’t understand the concept of a wonderful life after we die, so the whole thing is a terrible sales pitch.

    People think we have to sell Christianity, but we don’t. People who are willing to listen, who want what is missing from their lives, they will be drawn to God. God offers comfort, knowledge, understanding, and tools to improve your situation. Support is the best thing we can offer someone like this. They need to know someone cares about them and has their best interest at heart. They need to know someone loves them. They don’t need a fairy tale that God will make everything in their lives beautiful and care free.

    Great Post.

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    1. “People think we have to sell Christianity” and “a terrible sales pitch” were really on my mind when I was writing this, but I just didn’t know how to say it. You did a great job of saying it. Sometimes just saying it straight out is best! Thank you!

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  2. The prosperity Gospel has definite issues starting with the fact it is not Biblical.

    What is this life about? Well, I suspect it is like boot camp only far more challenging. Instead of training for war and then going to war with other men, we train in a war zone and fight devils. Our only hope of victory is Jesus.

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  3. Thee is and will always be a balance between what is Good and what is Evil, the law of reversibility is eternal. In order to be in Christ-Likeness we first must surrender our earthly desires and realize that the self is prohibiting us from being Saints, for we must first become Saints in our daily living in order to gain the conscience of Christ.


    1. Thanks for your comment. I’m unsure what you mean by “there will always be a balance between what is Good and what is Evil.” Christ has conquered sin and death and we will ultimately see that worked out through all creation. I’m sorry for being unfamiliar with “the law of reversibility” so I can’t really comment on that or whether it is eternal or not, however I will look for it on your website. Thanks!


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